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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH probably confided to his brother and SIL...and SIL is trying to help out your DH to understand the female point of view (yours)...because...
1) She is a female.
2) She is like a sister to your DH.
3) DH's brother finds himself at a loss as to how to help his brother navigate the minefield that is your marriage.
4) She wants your DH (and you) to have a successful marriage.
5) She wants your DH to have a strong marriage so that his problems lands on the lap of his wife and not his brothers.

Dear OP,

[b]Have an open mind and a grateful heart[/b]. It is a marriage not a battlefield. If you cannot be respectful (reading his emails...really?) then get out of this marriage, because you are wasting your time as well as your husbands.

And if you want the marriage to work ( because of kids, finance whatever) go to therapy.

Asking the question you asked in this forum does not help you because no one knows the your, your SIL's or your DH's intention.[/quote]

It doesn't matter how close dh is to these people or whether or not the SIL is pure of heart/walks on water blah, blah, blah - irrelevant.  The only people who should be navigating this marriage are the OP and her husband.  If they need therapy they should get therapy.  But if this marriage is to stand a prayer of lasting - the in-laws (no matter how well meaning) need to butt out.[/quote]

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