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[quote=Anonymous]I hate when friends and family use my house as a hotel. If you can't afford to travel independently than stay home and save for a hotel. Houseguest are disruptive especially after two nights. I've been in the situation where family will arrive 2 carloads and sleep in any available space. I absolutely hate it . After two nights I no longer worry about providing meals for people who selfishly want you to accommodate their travel needs and schedules. I also no longer willingly allow others to dictate when they chose to travel and stay at my house. Nine months pregnant those requesting visit have gotten  " sorry but this is not a good time for us". Extra laundry, cleaning, cooking and entertaining will not be forced upon me because of their feelings of entitlement to free housing.  I now blame myself for being a hostess that provides unlimited hot meals and entertainment.So now I only do what I feel like doing. Sometimes you need a break. I never stay at anyone's house when traveling because I like the privacy and independence of staying in a hotel. It's not your responsibly to be the family hotel.[/quote]

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