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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know what to say to my about to turn 13 dd.  and I'm the dad.   I know she is interested in boys tho.    Sorry.  Don't mean to derail the thread, this is just what comes to mind After reading all your comments. [/quote]

Keep an open dialogue.

Also, early on, introduce her to the concept of Good, Better, Best and NEVER.

Best: Abstinence till Marriage

Better: Sex in a Committed Relationship with 2 Forms of Birth Control (Because one WILL fail)

Best: Sex in a Committed Relationship with 1 Form of Birth Control with STD protection (Condoms)

NEVER: Sex with no birth control or sex with no STD protection.

Look, it would be ideal if she would stick with Best, but by outlining the Good, Better, Best, NEVER list, you increase the chances she will not have an unplanned pregnancy or STD if she goes off track.

Also, periods are sometimes irregular. At some point, you might want to make it more "convenient" by putting her on the pill; she will have a period every 28 days. You don't need to disclose that your ulterior motive is keeping her at the "Best" level of the list.

-Parent who is trying her damndest not to be a grandparent before her time. Would be nice if I didn't have to use any of the above tactics, but my child is a risk taker, and I'm playing the hand I'm dealt, not the one I wish I had.[/quote]

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