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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like your sister is on a slowly sinking ship. As tough as it is to see her flounder it will do you no good to drag yourself and your family on board with her. Yoyr parents will end up having to help both of you, then they'll be out of retirement funds. Then all of you will sink together. Martyrdom isn't the answer. She's going to need more than a grand or two to deal with this. Its more like tens ofbyjousands of dollars. Does she expect you to taje out a second mortgage or sell your car-and possibly strain your own marriage and kids-to finance her divorce? She should have been working on an exit strategy a long time ago. She knew this guy wasn't so great for a very, very long time.[/quote]

I agree with this. But unfortunately, some women will stay with a loser man because they think that they can't do better, or they love him. He doesn't "love" her, he wants out. But the messy result remains. Then the sister gets depressed and lets it all go to hell, and there is an even bigger mess. that is why sometimes you cannot jump in with funds. Because there is no limit.[/quote]

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