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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was child-free, I was open to dating a guy with kids.  3 would have been too many for me, though - I would have wanted one of my own in the mix and I'm not sure I could personally handle 4 kids at once.  it would be chaos.

I have one kid now and I like dating guys with kids, but I'm just as likely to date guys who don't have them.  I tend to prefer guys who have one child.  And a good relationship with the mom is a must.  I have a great relationship with my daughter's dad - very little drama - so I don't want to get involved in someone else's drama.  And it's helpful if he makes enough money to support his kids - I don't really make enough to be the breadwinner, and wouldn't want my daughter to suffer financially because mom got married.

I have several single girlfriends who are child-free and happily dating men who have multiple kids of their own.  They have decided that they would rather date the great guy and be a stepmom than to try to find someone else and have their own kids.  These are decisions you have to make as you approach 40.  [/quote]

30 with a child and feel similar. Ex and I have a good thing going and I'm not interested in going into a relationship with a guy who has a tumultuous one with the mother of his kids. I dated a guy my age a year ago and we got along fast because we both enjoyed dating someone who "got it" as far as being parents but also didn't speak negatively of their ex. That's very important to me. Someone who doesn't appreciate the mother of his child wont appreciate me either eventually.[/quote]

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