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[quote=Anonymous]OP, here's how you get out of this. Talk to your husband about your spending and your needs. What the household needs and what YOU need. If he decides that what YOU need is too much for him to fund, and he would rather take on more of the household duties himself allowing you to get a job, do that. If he decides he would rather you stay home and care for him, the kids, and the house, do that. Step 2, (if you're staying home) have him establish a retirement account for you, and pay into automatically each month. If SAHM is your job, you should be accruing benefits for it. Step 3, fix your attitude about the household money. Come to an agreement about what it yours, and what you need to pay for. The rest belongs to the household. It's not fair that what's yours is yours, and what's his is yours. If you're going to have separate finances, you need to have an equal attitude about it. [/quote]
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