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[quote=Anonymous]Op here again. You don't know how much these past few posts mean to me. I've never had the courage to tell anyone this stuff, and my sisters are all afraid to be in my shoes (altho they get their share of abuse too).

I've started reading toxic parents and it looks very helpful so far. And yes, its hard to explain the situation to others. No I don't feel sorry for myself for having gone to a "lessEd" (it was still great) school because my parents spent all that money. But trust me, it sucks when you explain to your 
grandpa, etc why you turned down dream school. And no I 
never told him that my parents spent the money. Trust me,
 he was blue collar too, and every dime he had he earned 
from sweat and hardship. This is why you never write checks directly to parents!!!  (the memo part said "my 
college fund" qnd it was given to my on my birthday c/o my parents every birthday).

Anyway, it is sort of funny that you focused on that part when the far more traumatizing bit was how he embarrassed me in front of all my friends qt my wedding and disowned me on my wedding night. But I think that's so terrible it's sort of too bad to dwell on and picking on the college fund thing is more fun.

But thanks also for the support with my aunt. My parents say she's manipulating me and she wants to be my friend to use me. I don't know what she can do to use me, but I guess they're alluding to the fact that everyone in the family hates my parents and seeing me with my aunt is proof my parents are the bad ones. I think you're right about her because she is super kind to me- has been before my parents' stupid fight. [/quote]

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