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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - most of DCUM hates men and will twist every post to try and hate on the man. Don't take it personally - it is feminism gone wrong and not about you. You shouldn't have to tolerate abuse in any form. Abuse against men is just as bad as abuse against woman. [b]She is responsible for her own actions and her lack of action in getting a job and her lack of motivation. Not you. [/b] Definitely get into individual counseling. You may have settled into the mindset of an abused spouse and it can be hard to sort out what is what. Getting into couples counseling with an abusive spouse isn't a good idea until you know where you stand yourself. Al the best OP and don't take the negativity on here against you personally. It isn't about you.[/quote] I agree with most of what you said, but he HAS to take some responsibility for making her unemployed to begin with. That's just the way it is. In Asia she had a job. Here she doesn't. They moved for his job. A+B=C in this case. In this job market, becoming unemployed is a huge risk. They're finding out why. [/quote]
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