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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just what do you expect your brother to do?  [b]Take your side over his wife's? [/b] Not going to happen.[/quote]

[b]He does any other time his wife has her freak out moments with me or my mom.[/b] [/quote]

Yoj sound like an absolute bitch of a sister in law with this comment.

Before I just thought you were entitled and a bit stupid about what is appropriate.

Now after seeing this comment I completely understand why your SIL freaked out on you.

You (and your mom) need to quit interferring in their marriage and quit trying to make her husband take your side.

[b]Like it or not, that woman and her child are his primary family now.[/b]  You are not.  Your mother is not. Your goal needs to either be help them have a happy marriage with their family, or if you can't do that, butt out.  Quit being so controlling, interferring and manipulative.[/quote]

[b]My mom and I will always be his and his child's family. Him and his wife can divorce anytime. [/b][/quote]

You sound as though you are (a) jealous of your SIL and (b) way too into your brother’s marriage. Please save your parenting skills for your own child and work on cultivating your own relationship with someone. You're going to become a wedge in your brother's marriage and the only person you'll truly hurt is your niece. Your brother can find a new wife and your SIL can find a new husband but your niece will be the one hurt by your behavior.

You are not the parent or the wife. Know your role and stay in your lane.
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