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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell them they can't come. Then tell the nanny to be out with your child when they are supposed to drop by. Tell your DH that it doesn't matter that it doesn't bother him. It bothers you and the two of you are the central team. Then tell him you are willing to see his family every third weekend at most. He is welcome to visit them on his own more often. [/quote] I agree with this. Tell your ILs that their weekly visits don't work with your family schedule but they're free to arrange a time when DH will be home to come over. They can protest but don't argue, just tell your nanny to be out at the park and not leave a note when the ILs plan to come by. And you don't need to go with your DH to every family visit. Pick one day per month that you're happy to go and then skip the rest. Give yourself some me time![/quote]
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