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[quote=Anonymous]My son is a hard worker and does well in school. I have never discussed his grades or teacher reports with anyone.  Oddly, as I would never do this, I have been called by a few other mothers at times when their son does poorly (on ERBs or report cards) and asked if my son also did poorly.  I realized they were looking for sympathy, I gave it, but did not comment on my son more than to say "he did fine."

These kids are now in 6th grade and applying out to next step schools.  My son got into one of the most "desired" schools by his cohort.  As the news gets out (told a few teachers and friends, people see us at the welcome receptions, etc...) I can tell some parents are like "wow, who knew BoyX was so smart."  Or, the less kind, "can you believe BoyX got into to ..."

My point is, no need to tell people if your child is doing well.  Eventually the proof will be visible to all.  It is best to refuse to get caught up in this crap.  First, because it is not about you, it is about your child.  Second, karma is a bitch for far too many people who act/say their child is brilliant and will definitely go to Top 3 school and then they don't get in.  Just don't say anything.  Much safer, much kinder, much better bet.
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