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[quote=Anonymous]I would approach the queen bee and simply say, "Can I talk to you for a second? I sense a coldness from you towards me. I'd like to talk to you about it and understand where it's coming from. If I've done something to upset you, I'd truly like to know. Would you please do me the courtesy of telling me honestly what is wrong?" I think people must be gossiping about you based on the odd conversation with that drunk dad. I mean, where did that come from? Was that his way of trying to see if you'd be interested in a little cheating action? Maybe people think you're out to wreck a marriage? Do you recall ever making some sort of judgment statement that could have turned people off (like, if you work, have you ever said something negative about SAHMs and woman that make that choice?)? All that said, I do think if you're in a toxic school environment full of the sorts of parents who would exclude a young child from things like playdates and birthday parties because they don't care for the child's parents, it's time to look for a new school. There's no reforming morally bankrupt and cruel adults like that. They will continue to live in their exclusionary bubbles and short of declaring bankruptcy, that won't change. The exclusion will begin to wear on your daughter and impact her self-confidence and joy. Yes, school is for education, but your current school is certainly not the only one where a good education can be had. Good luck.[/quote]
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