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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I'm a little confused.

Does he go out multiple times a month and one of those times he gets so drunk that he passes out & doesn't come home?

Or, once a month, he goes out & gets drunk & passes out & doesn't come home?

Because if it's the former, that's HUGE problem. But if it's the latter, how come you don't just assume he's not coming home? (since he never does)[/quote]

sorry, for me, going MIA (not even calling!) once a month is not acceptable either.

[b]as for the affair poster, perhaps, but it seems more likely her DH has a serious drinking problem. If an affair, there is usually forethought, planning, and lies. [/b]
sorry OP, i would be livid, but also, focusing on the very real possibility of serious alcoholism. Binge drinking to that extent, even once a month is a real problem.  [/quote]

I am the affair poster.  He doesn't need to go to a friend's house to get drunk and pass out. He can and would be doing it at home if he had a serious drinking problem.

He is lying - saying he forgot to call, just couldn't drive home bc he was too drunk, etc.

Really, he is having an affair. It doesn't get more simple than that.[/quote]

+1000. I couldn't agree more.  If he had a problem, it certainly wouldn't be once a month.  If this were me, I'd be certain he was having an affair and would hire a PI or do it myself in a heartbeat.  The first sign of cheating is his defensive behavior.  Everyone is so outraged by the "story", but DH is lying.  Sorry OP.  My sis was in the exact situation except her H was staying out until 4/5am once a week, he'd say that he was falling asleep outside the bar at closing (in his car to sober up).  Turned out he had a weekly happy hour date w/ co-worker that ended at her place.  Sad thing was, it took her quite a while to figure it out as he was a true alcoholic, at home, work, everywhere on a daily basis.  So the behavior was typical for him.[/quote]

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