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Here's the thing:  There are an awful lot of people around here that assume the next guy has it SO easy - so (naturally) they (somehow) "deserve" to have it "so easy" too!  And their next step is usually to try to knock the next guy down a few pegs (never happens, but they think they feel better for trying) AND/OR keep comparing themselves to the next guy (actually their made up version of the next guy, that is mostly no where near the truth) AND/OR never learn to make it on their own.

I have a neighbor like this.  She HATES the tall, thin, bubbly, accomplished beauty next door to us, but is so very clueless that the "perfect" neighbor doesn't know she exists!  No one sees the issue here?

Really, there are some people that are so lazy, you wonder how they tie their own shoes every day.  Then they resent others for having tied shoes! Really?

As a therapist, you should be trying to explain the big picture.  That there are different personalities and some are more helpless than others.  Often that is where therapists come in, because often, depression looms as either as a cause or as an effect.

Some people can't be bothered to change.  Some people are too lazy to do for themselves.  If they made bad decisions in their life, it is no one else's responsibility but their own.  Do you actually let them go through their lives making more and more excuses for themselves?  Or teaching them how to do for themselves for a change?  Because the latter would make all of the difference.

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