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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]2)  Personally I think the bar is really too low for many women, but I don't push or expect anything of any one else.  The recent, OMG I need to go to a hotel to get away from life  thread is an example.  If you are that burned out from life and your kids than make a change.  Now, many people do have challenges in life that are out of their control, but their reaction is within their control and this is where I judge people. 
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I responded on that thread, but left out what was so stressful. In the prior 2 weeks, I watched a family member die, dealt with my father spiraling out of control in reaction to the death, worried about how his drinking would mix with his chemo, managed kids and the funeral arrangements, all while 7 months pregnant.

That's kind of a fucking downer and "whiny", so I just shared about what a nice experience it was to have a night away.

But, have fun with your judging. It sounds like it makes you very upbeat. [/quote]

I'm truly sorry for your loss and went through something similar not too long ago.  It sucked bad, but I realize that these situations are a part of life and I won't be here forever either.  I enjoy it all because I don't know how much time I have left with my loved ones, particularly with my kids and DH.  Life is what you make it for most people.

Also [b]not every single one of those posters had a similar situation happen to them[/b] which spurred their desire to hibernate for a weekend.  Several posted that this was an annual event or they would like it to be.  I just find it sad that people want to escape their life instead of enjoying each day.  [/quote]

NP, here. No not every single one, but then again how the hell would you know, douche.[/quote]

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