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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, this happened to me postpartum too after our first. I had horrible damage from a third degree tear and [b]sex was painful[/b] and not enjoyable the way it was previously. It didn’t go away for about a year, and even after that, I still tried to have sex w DH about once a week or once every two weeks at least. That was tough for our marriage, but I thought it was cruel to withhold sex forever. Pelvic floor PT helped. Reading x rated stories / the trashy/fluffy romance novels helped. Having a second baby actually changed my life. The doctor restitched me and helped fix some of the damage from the previous tear. I felt like a new person again and sex felt the same way it had before my first. [/quote] Yes this happened to me too. DH would see me wince during sex and it would kill it for him. We couldn’t even complete the act and we did it maybe once in 2 years and conceived our second. 😂 Having the second kid fixed it for me too. [/quote]
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