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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well DH and I save and invest separately - spender (him) and saver (me).

Early 40s - I have 15x my income saved and invested (excluding significant home equity and $600k in 529 plans).  About 50% of that is separate property (pre-marriage investments that I kept separate) and the other 50% of technically marital property, but that's only relevant if we get a divorce - I control it as long as we are married, and it's part of my estate.

DH is older and only has 3x saved.

Story of a spender versus a saver. [/quote]

Whoa, 600k in 529s? I'm assuming you have 3 kids? I am also a saver but that's a very high number especially with your savings rate and investment property, you have many means of funding college for your kids.

It is weird to me how antagonistic you are towards your husband and the degree to which you keep your finances separate. My DH and I also have different financial personalities -- I'm more conservative and a saver, he's more risk taking and a spender. But we combine everything and I actually like how our tendencies balance each other out. We have way more total money saved/invested because of my influence -- I insist on high percentages of automatic savings and investing out of our income, and I don't allow lifestyle creep when we get raises, so the money builds up fast. But my husband's greater capacity for risk is why it's grown at a higher rate. I would have much more of our money in ordinary savings were it not for his influence, and we would have missed out on massive gains in recent years. Also he makes sure we actually enjoy life, take real vacations, and reminds me that there's no prize for living like a pauper. We balance each other out and both come out ahead.[/quote]

600K in a 529 and you expect 3+ kids?  Why?  Currently you can expect to spend $40-50K per year for a moderate school, so $200K minimum per kid.  But if they want to attend others, there are tons that cost much more.  So why wouldn't you save for it?  Also, what if your kid wants grad school/proofessional school?  Those can cost $200-300K+.  We just spent $370K+ for 4 years, and are looking at another $200K for just one kid.  Good thing it's in the 529.  The other kid was $160K total for 4 years but that was 6-8 years ago.  [/quote]

That is insane. Not normal to expect or provide that level of money for a child's education. [/quote]

Cost of attendance at my alma matter is over $90k per year. DH similar. So for anyone who wants to send their kid to an Ivy or NESCAC, you have to plan for ~ $360k for undergrad.

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When I see posts like this I think I've gone back to the 90s when attending one of those schools was perceived as so important. Now it is practically irrelevant to long term success...[/quote]

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