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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d be depressed too if I had two kids with a guy that wouldn’t marry me.[/quote] Stop. It takes TWO to want marriage. If she is happy having a commitment ceremony instead of a marriage, then that's all that matters. NOT your views, not my views. I think you honestly need to sit her down without kids there and tell her you simply can't keep going this way. YOU will be entering therapy and need her to engage in marriage counseling. Because, you are married, you said so, even without the big white dress, so then, you need marriage counseling. And if she won't, then you need to decide what's worse: to live in a home with a checked out partner who doesn't help while you run yourself ragged, or separate. BUT since you aren't married, that might end up being more difficult, etc. You ARE on the birth certificates of the children, right? [/quote]
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