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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s reassuring to see so many happy sexless marriages.[/quote]

I'm glad, I think people should talk about it more. There are lots of marriages where both people's drive declines and sex just tapers off and no one is mad about it.

I'm the person who upthread said we haven't had sex since 2024. It had been tapering off a lot prior to that. But I also want to note we are still very physically affectionate and emotionally intimate. We talked every day, we give back rubs and hugs, we kiss multiple times a day, we talk about deep stuff about hour families, our kids, our careers, and our mental health. We care for each other in other ways (making favorite meals for one another, letting each other sleep in when we have had a rough week, little gifts, etc.). We are very, very important to each other and he's definitely my biggest emotional support right now in life and I his.

We also haven't closed the door on sex. It's just not a priority for either of us right now. We've had other stuff going on. In the evenings, I'd say our biggest priority at the moment is sleep.[/quote]

I wonder if this guy is on this forum wondering why his wife hasn’t slept with him in two years.  I never believed those men were still emotionally intimate and good partners before now.  
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It sounds like her DH is just low drive sounds like they are well matched. Alternatively, he is the guy who is secretly resentful, but hasn’t given up yet and keeps trying and is trying to keep her happy. Alternatively, again, maybe he is gay. I do believe that most heterosexual men associate being physical affectionate with sex in a way that most women do not. [/quote]

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