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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you have lived the day to day of the final weeks w/ someone w/ advanced cancer, you need to get off your high horse and have compassion. After my mom died of terrible cancer, I couldnt put a rational thought together. I realized I had not actually slept a really night in 2 months. I was truly delirious and then overwhelmed w/ every decision and all sorts of paperwork. There is no way I was thinking logically. Give the woman a break and let her process this and catch up on sleep before you jump on her. [/quote]

Widow here again. My DH was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and I took care of him and our young children for years. Years. While working full time. My delirium, as you call it, lasted for years.
Please think twice before you accuse other people of lacking in compassion. It’s her husband OP is thinking of first. Her children and her marriage come first. And that’s ok and healthy. 
Please offer constructive and compassionate solutions to her problem. [/quote]

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