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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I told him I was leaving or getting a lover if he didn't get his act together.[/quote]

DP, but same story. Her life is amazing, SAHM because she wants to be, lots of friends and hobby time, etc. We had a terrible year with no sex and I finally told her that fun time is over and we'll be moving to a 50/50 split on everything, and if she can't manage that then she gets kicked out of the house. Things are going great now, she just had to make contact with reality.

Get mad as hell and give your partner an ultimatum that you WILL carry out. Don't get suckered into forever counseling. [/quote]

Ooooh, threats like that would definitely get me interested in sexy time with you!!! Nothing quite like someone getting "mad as hell" and giving ultimatums about physical intimacy to fix a relationship...[/quote]

Don't know what to tell you. We had done all the other things and we weren't getting unstuck. Things are back to normal now, and I wine, dine, compliment, and otherwise show warmth and affection like normal, and so does she. When you get stuck and try all the normal things then you're left with a desperate, potentially explosive option. Thankfully it worked. [/quote]

You did nothing wrong. Women on this site (and im one) are clueless about this issue. I'm glad you have your marriage back.[/quote]

Yeah women are totally clueless about the female sex drive. [/quote]

No, but they are often clueless about the male sex drive, which is what I was ACTUALLY saying. [/quote]

Bro, we all know that you just care about getting off and don’t care about having to coerce a woman into it. that’s not all men, but some men. [/quote]

Well I’m a woman and not the man you’re trying to argue with. Why women like you get married is still a mystery to me. Just be alone and celibate. Marriage is not for everyone. [/quote]

Do you have a lot of bad sex you don’t want to have because your husband threatened to leave you if you didn’t? That sounds a lot worse to me than being divorced and celibate. [/quote]

I'm the PP who you are caricaturing. I did not threaten to leave. I told her that if this was to be a sexless relationship, then she would just be responsible for her half of the bills. And if she didn't want to do that, then she would indeed have to find elsewhere to live. Is that not fair? I appreciate her decorating flair and conversation and all that, but not so much that I'll fund her entire life for it.[/quote]

Yeah keep trying to convince us you’re a good guy pleasing his wife. [/quote]

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