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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]55 y.o. male lawyer here, make around $400k, have 2 DC's, one wife.
Generally, life is pretty good, as I get to do spend time on what I love: my DC's, family, work, exercising, and a few hours a week on my obscure hobby.
What would I like?
1) i wish everyone (my wife and DC's) appreciated how demanding it is to come up with the $20k per month that is required to keep the household running.  I'm not saying that we don't live well, but that private school, that big house, all those school extra curricular activities aren't free, and I'm the one responsible for them.  On top of that, I still have to attend recitals, teach them how to ride a bike, and be a therapist when a DC is having an emotional crisis.
2) I also LOVE it when my wife makes [b]the effort to look hot[/b].  After everything that I do for (1), it's a nice reward that I wish I got more often.

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What is involved in her looking hot? Do you mean going to the gym and dieting, wearing (more?) makeup, more expensive clothes, getting her hair dyed? Or wearing sexier clothes like tighter and shorter? Or something else?[/quote]

DP
You'll get different answers, but for me it's not about looking like Sydney Sweeney or [b]Beyonce[/b], it's just about doing something to indicate she wants me to notice and engage at a physical level. It doesn't  even have to actually work on a fashion level. Just the act of trying to glam up a bit shows what she's thinking, and that's what makes me feel appreciated and excited.
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And I wouldn't touch Beyonce with a 10' pole. [/quote]

Why not? [/quote]

Because she’s trashy. Sexy =\= Trashy[/quote]

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