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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was talking to my grandmother about her marriage to my grandpa. She was very honest with me and told me about my grandpa having a mistress when she was in her 20s with 3 kids including a new baby. I was shocked. I never thought my grandpa would do something like that. I have fond memories of my childhood with the both of them. It made me wonder do we currently have unrealistic expectations of marriage? If someone posted my grandma’s story here for advice, everyone here would say divorce.[/quote] There is definitely more shame thrown at the person now if they do stay in this scenario. But I don’t think it has to grounds for divorce if the couple doesn’t want it to. Personally, I’d stay if it was a one off thing. I’m married for my kids, my future grandkids, stability, and the life we’ve built. No way I’d give that up easily. My husband is a decent guy but he’s just some guy, the life we have is so much more than him. [/quote]
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