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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was not award that my DH is AuDHD, and so did he. He is high functioning, unmedicated and never diagnosed with zero therapies or school supports, and he is just a bit social awkward. Well, my 2 kids are both AuDHD plus extra diagnosis. Gene passed down. It is tough and I am jealous of other parents having easy kids and no need to worrying much. There are something that my kids may never achieve or enjoy or do due to their disabilities or capabilities, and I feel frustrated. Well, I think it that way. All I can help is try to get them to their full potential with their limitation. If I give up on them, no one would do or help them. I cannot help them down the road forever, and it is ultimately they are the ones that suffer the most.

If I knew that my DH is AuDHD, sorry, I would not have children with him because I would rather not to be born to be judged and suffered. Since it is too late, I just have to be brave and sucks it up to do my best to help them to grow. This week is teacher appreciation week, I am always generous to give out giftcards to teachers that help them. [/quote]

This is pretty much us, my husband was undiagnosed. I suspected ADHD as he was prone to having to hunt for his wallet, keys etc., always in a hurry, would get lost in TV and forgot doing stuff. A bit quirky but just seemed nerdy. Really nice guy who definitely loves me but just doesn't get why I struggle and can't have fun anymore.  He held it together and it started to go south with kids, then kids' diagnosis that trickled out and then he decided to go for a PHD without consulting me and then shit really hit the fan. He got diagnosed and on meds but it's now like everyone is out to get him. I have so much of my AUDHD DD on me and another DD with ADHD and both kids have Dyslexia and maybe Dyscalculia   [/quote]

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