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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are 15 years in, 2 kids, both avoidant, both uncommunicative. Dealing with depression, anxiety, SN kids. Don’t have the bandwidth to even get myself help. Has anything helped you? I can’t leave, but my mental health is rapidly tanking. I am utterly unsupported. Tired of being the only one who’s learning about psychology/relationships regarding myself, my family. No family to talk to, no local friends, not even working right now. I feel so lost and navigating this world as a woman with a partner who doesn’t GAF about the world we live in or is too chicken to show up. Please tell me some of you have come back from this.[/quote]

Do you have your own money? A pre nup? If not, why aren't you working when you're married to someone you hate?[/quote]
You mean married to someone who doesn’t care about here whatsoever AND cannot provide care to her or to the child. [/quote]

It’s a wonder anyone would marry someone like that. Seems like some massive red flags were overlooked.[/quote]

Well you don’t have any dependents until you have kids. And taking care of an apartment with or without roommates is never similar to a single family home with a yard, appliances, pool, hvac or water tank systems and vehicle.

I’d say have them plan a trip and see how stupid or overcost it is, but now brain dead losers use generic ChatGPT to respond to everything. [/quote]

I find it impossible to believe autism never showed up until there were kids. I think the wives are ND themselves in these cases.[/quote]

It's possible you've not been close with a high-functioning, high-masking, relatively-low-support-needs individual who might not even know they're masking until the demands get too great that the mask falls off.[/quote]

I think we need to know more about the person who failed to read the signs. Because no, I've never encountered someone who had everyone completely fooled until "the mask slips". That's a cop out.[/quote]

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