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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are 15 years in, 2 kids, both avoidant, both uncommunicative. Dealing with depression, anxiety, SN kids. Don’t have the bandwidth to even get myself help. Has anything helped you? I can’t leave, but my mental health is rapidly tanking. I am utterly unsupported. Tired of being the only one who’s learning about psychology/relationships regarding myself, my family. No family to talk to, no local friends, not even working right now. I feel so lost and navigating this world as a woman with a partner who doesn’t GAF about the world we live in or is too chicken to show up. Please tell me some of you have come back from this.[/quote]

Do you have your own money? A pre nup? If not, why aren't you working when you're married to someone you hate?[/quote]
You mean married to someone who doesn’t care about here whatsoever AND cannot provide care to her or to the child. [/quote]

It’s a wonder anyone would marry someone like that. Seems like some massive red flags were overlooked.[/quote]

Well you don’t have any dependents until you have kids. And taking care of an apartment with or without roommates is never similar to a single family home with a yard, appliances, pool, hvac or water tank systems and vehicle.

I’d say have them plan a trip and see how stupid or overcost it is, but now brain dead losers use generic ChatGPT to respond to everything. [/quote]

I find it impossible to believe autism never showed up until there were kids. I think the wives are ND themselves in these cases.[/quote]

It's possible you've not been close with a high-functioning, high-masking, relatively-low-support-needs individual who might not even know they're masking until the demands get too great that the mask falls off.[/quote]

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