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[quote=Anonymous]OP sounds like you have the right mindset. The only thing that hit a nerve with me was you saying the partner "does the basics." Assuming they aren't married/legally bound to eachother, you are so fortunate she prepares meals, gets food, does laundry and it there to check in on him, but she also takes care of her mental and physical health. Do you have any idea how much you have to pay someone to do all that she does? She could easily leave and all that work should not be described as 'basic." Plus he has companionship with her-priceless. The situation likely isn't safe, but if he is of sound mind, his choice. I agree you have to allow him to make his own decisions and all you can do is have your own boundaries. If the worst happened and he died falling down steps or died getting surgery after a fall, it was on him terms.[/quote]
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