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[quote=Anonymous]There's a really cool YT channel called McHusbands. They are gay dad parents.

They asked their mutual best friend Julie to be their egg donor. She did not want actual kids in life. Her parents wanted that for her, but she did not, she was pretty firm in that respect. She's a nail tech on YT herself.

the surrogate was the SIL of one of the dads who already had her own kids.

She carried twins for them to term, both from same donor eggs, but each dad contributed sperm. They ended up with 1 girl from each dad, and it's amazing how much from the same eggs they each look like their dads.

Two things in this case: the egg donor was 100% cool with it and the surrogate mother was related.

Those twins are turning 9 this year and everyone's pretty happy with them.

All these things can be cool but you have to be cool with it. If you're not, you are not your sister's solution.

No shame, but accept that you might not have the same relationship with your sister that you used to have.

Also, though, I have adopted and bio kids and your sister's insistence that she have some genetic bond with the baby is understandable, but also nonsense. People have adopted babies for all of human history. And if your sister is so insistent on a genetic bond ... I worry for the future if somehow a baby seems to want to "go to you" instead of mom ... your sister will probably not handle that kind off thing well.[/quote]

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