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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes.  I know lots of couples who went ring shopping together.  My DH and I did and I picked out the ring/setting together.  He followed up with the jeweler, picked out the stone, bought it and then planned the proposal.  [/quote]

OP, no I mean I pick it out on my own. I don’t want to shop together (that sounds awful by the way - my partner is not materialistic and hates shopping, and I am sloooow and would want to go everywhere and look online and read reviews, etc). [/quote]

Shallow marrying Non-materialistic.

What could go wrong?
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Don't be nasty.

OP, do your own research and find your One Ring, and then bring your fiance back with you to show it to him. Seems like a great plan!

This whole stupidity of having men chose for their future wives is so misogynist. Are women fine with wearing something for years that they didn't select themselves, and that might not be entirely to their taste? It should not be a litmus test that a man should divine exactly what ring his girlfriend wants. It's not just color preference or setting preference - some ring shapes/designs just aren't comfortable to wear, and that's not something men necessarily think about, since most won't even think of trying on the ring themselves.

I encourage all women to try on multiple rings, and then decide.

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In the context of proposals, you think THE RING is the misogynistic part? Not the fact that the time, place and format of the proposal, as well as the overall decision about whether to propose at all, must be apparently left in the control of the man? [/quote]

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