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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm divorced, and have learned way too much about human nature in the process.

Sadly, many divorced women have learned that 
"Men only care about the kids of the woman they're f**king"  and once they stop F**king you, their care for even their own children goes way down.  
I'm sorry you too are now part of this seedy underbelly of society, but it's real, and it leave moms doing 110% of the work (plus trying to keep the kids from falling apart from the new realization that dad just doesn't really care)[/quote]

And many of them will treat their NEW girlfriend’s kids very very well while ignoring their own.

Mine stopped caring about our kids once he wasn’t happy with me- while still IN the marriage. Started treating them garbage (after being a pretty good/involved father up until that point). I was shocked.

OP, while very sad for the kids -this may end up being for the best, if that is what he is really like. Like everyone has said, assume there will be a “new family” (whether he remarries, or just takes on a girlfriend’s kids) sucking up financial resources at some point and make sure to plan accordingly.

As an aside, I’m always amazed at the “new women” who go along with this. I know several who buy the BS story of “oh she won’t LET me see them, have custody, blah blah” when that is (usually) not the case. Classic. [/quote]

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