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[quote=Anonymous]“I have to bend over backwards…” Let me stop you right there, OP. Own it. Own your part in this, because you are the root cause of your own resentment. 1) You don’t have to bend over backwards for anyone; if anything, your husband can do any and all planning, care and feeding for his mother 2) If it makes YOU feel like a good host to go a bit above and beyond, you’re doing that for yourself, to keep yourself from feeling nonsensical guilt (or to make yourself feel nonsensical pride), so OWN YOUR PART IN THIS 3) Drop. The. Rope. Your husband can invite her, or not, and he can aim to please her, or not.[/quote]
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