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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds like a loser. [/quote] This is how you end up with a husband who refuses to engage in any emotional intimacy. OP’s BF sounds like a smart guy. They’ve only been dating a year, not 5. A man who is willing to think through these realities is wise. Maybe he’s had some talks with long-married people and he’s learning from them. [/quote] Is he willing? What are his actual thoughts on the matter? He didn’t seem to share any. At this point I’d make him write them down in a sealed letter, then both talk about them w a professional. I would not want someone merely parroting back to me what I think and say, or just saying me and my beliefs whilst they sit back and share nothing. Then read the notes and letters immediately after talking. [/quote]
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