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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am both an adoptee and an adopted mom. Don’t do what my mom did when I met mine - she went on a diatribe when I finally met mine after 40 years. She called it a slap in the face and wrote me pages of emails telling me what a disappointment I was as a daughter and human. We are no longer in contact. If she had bothered to listen to the rest of my story, she would’ve known I considered her my only mother and was actually heartbroken about the meeting, where my birth mother said she’d never be able to contact me again, due to needing secrecy about the situation. [/quote] This is the downside of adoptees insisting they had the right to find their birth mother and mess up her life. There are ways for birth mothers and adoptees to say they are ok with a meeting. If she hasn't added her name then leave her alone. There are valid reasons for giving up a child and it is only her business. [/quote]
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