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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have died on that hill, up until the millisecond before my ex randomly confessed to multiple hookups. I never suspected a thing. Why would I have? Like your mom’s friend, my husband was home like clockwork. Never spent time on his phone, or doing anything in secret. Yet somehow, he had sneaked in YEARS of affairs. They find a way, and spouses (myself included) are blind. [/quote]

+1.

My aunt was married for 43 years. Her husband (my uncle) dies and at the funeral two women roughly my age show up claiming they were his daughter from the next town over (we were in Lynchburg, they in Rustburg). Turns out they were. He'd had a half-ass, quasi second family for decades. This was in the late 90s so no internet made things easier, but I can promise you that even today, if you want to keep an affair secret it really isn't that hard.

Before my wife and I were married (but still 'exclusively' dating) I'd had a 1.5 year long FWB relationship with a woman I worked with. It was just sex, there were no emotions involved at all and it ended before the marriage and never happened again.

Married 26 years in July and I've not so much as touched another woman in that time. Literally no one knows about this except for me and the coworker.[/quote]

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