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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorced men, especially with younger kids, are such a huge red flag to me. It means that they couldn’t figure out what they needed to do to sustain adult partnership.

Women don’t divorce men unless they’ve really messed up.

Those men are gross.[/quote]

My ex-husband had an affair and is still with the affair partner. She left her husband for mine, trading a sober, community volunteering, church going, primary caregiver dad (he works full time, just from home) for an alcoholic, cheating, smoking atheist. I'm friends with her ex and I'd say he has some mild self-esteem issues and can be kind of stubborn, but that's nothing compared to my ex's enormous pile of flaws and failures. My ex makes a lot of money and is in better physical shape (I guess . . . until the smoking and drinking catch up to him), so maybe that was the appeal.

Her ex is totally going to get snapped up by some churchy lady.

And sure, I'm not the most reliable narrator in this situation, but I think the AP's flaws are objective fact. She moved out when her youngest was 7 and she refused to have the kids overnight or even let them in her rental because it was her "sanctuary"; this went on for 9 months. She told her ex she was leaving him because he "failed to love her like Christ loved the church." I love that part of the story.  :lol: How is a cheating, alcoholic atheist going to love her like Christ loves the church? She's constantly leaving her kids with her parents so she can follow my ex around like a puppy. They're a match made in . . . somewhere.[/quote]

She offered your ex something that you wouldn’t or couldn’t. Move on. [/quote]

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