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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can’t thread this gracefully. You think your son worked harder and she’s ridiculous and you don’t want to stick your neck out the tiniest bit for her.

Sounds exactly like the politics-based baseball leagues in DC with overlord parents you *thought* were friends and liked your kids. [/quote]

Can you explain how you think this should go down, at the high school level? A parent should take a coach aside on behalf of an angry friend and insist that another kid be placed on a team? And should she apologize or feel sorry that her son made it?

Tragedy is horrible. But you don't do a child any favors by snow-plowing their life. Where do you draw the line? You have no idea which gifted kids on the team are being beaten, neglected by alcoholic parents, suffering from depression or anxiety, etc. Should one of those kids, who made the team, be displaced to accommodate another child? The family needs counseling, the kid needs to find a sport where he can make the team on his merits (or do a no-cut sport), and community is essential, sure. But bulldozing your way onto a team five years after a tragedy isn't the answer. That isn't "politics." Politics is cutting a first-grader from little league.
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If you don’t think politics plays into HS sports, I don’t know what to tell you. If your kid is cut in ES, because of overlord parents, you’re already disadvantaged. Every single bb-connected parent knows the HS coaches. I cannot believe how naive you are.

Besides, the issue is OP thinks her son worked “very hard” and she’s “very sorry” for her friend is pathetic. OP wants validation for being a shitty friend. [/quote]

Exactly how is OP a bad friend? Their kids went to tryouts and one made the team and one didn’t. [/quote]

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