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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Passion is hormones meant to get you into a relationship.

You are a family now.  You have ethical obligations to your spouse and kid.

Very few people have lifetime passion.  How many spouses are you willing to discard before identifying this as a "you" problem?[/quote]

I really don’t want to mess up my family. But is it really my fault that I don’t feel that passion anymore? Am I just meant to push aside my feelings and my happiness? 
I know I could stick with the relationship and act like everything is fine, but isn’t unfair to my husband? Isn’t that just as wrong? 
I didn’t decide to feel this way. I wish I could still experience love and passion.[/quote]

Have you tried therapy?  Before you break up your family, maybe spend some time figuring out if this is coming from within you (because then you'll find yourself in the same situation 5 years from now, but with much destruction behind you).

Ive been married for 14 years. At year 7 I had a intense crush on someone, lost passion for my husband, etc. considered divorce. But THANK GOD I avoided an affair and looked inward.

The passion is not there all the time, but now I feel so grateful when we both feel passionate for each other at the same time, and we always jump on the opportunity, and it happens maybe once a week. Other times I'm annoyed, he annoyed, we are both busy, we have other attractions, etc. but we come together whenever we overlap.  [/quote]

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