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[quote=Anonymous]Becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah is not a money grab. I would never tell a grandparent or anyone else how large their gift should be. Your father honored your kid: showing up; new suit. Really the classiest thing is to request no gifts, but suggest a charity for contributions. That is far more in the spirit of becoming Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Right now, I would ask for contributions to the Security Fund onthe synagogue. I regret this expense is necessary, but it is. Te same goes for anyone who hasn’t given a gift. Don’t ask if it got lost in the mail…unless asked about it.[/quote]
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