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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP the pretty barista and woman working retail aren’t any more into you than the attractive women in your office are. Their job requires them to engage in a friendly way with you. PLEASE don’t confuse that for romantic interest.

You are asking whether you should date a woman you disdain for her career or for her looks. Neither. Date a woman you admire and respect.[/quote]

Some of those baristas and retail women actually might be into him. Some women have a primal, physical, sexual reaction to successful men.  They're not just gold diggers. They're actually aroused by a man's success. Some are also physically turned off by a man's financial struggles even if he looks good, smells good, etc. Not all women are the same.

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If that were true it would be equally true in his workplace where the women actually know how successful he is. They’re not interested, and OP is confusing professional friendliness for romantic interest which is intensely cringe.[/quote]

You’re making the mistake of assuming I’m meeting these women irl at their jobs. I’m meeting them on dating apps. It’s weird how you automatically think I’m trying to flirt with waitresses at their jobs [/quote]

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