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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This has been going on for years, but nobody cut down on spending and saved or invested so he could take a lower paying job. You went on to get a high mortgage to boot.
Then, somehow you can't or won't get a $70k job and also refuse to downgrade.
Sell the house, rent something way cheaper, get a job full time job, and let him get a less stressful job.[/quote]

OP here - he is the spender, buying nice clothes and expensive watches, I try to keep it all in check. Our mortgage hasn’t changed but our taxes have gone up a lot since Covid, but this new job would be less than his previous job (that we bought the house on, that he liked)… so we didn’t buy the house after he took a job he hated. We would have to move farther out to save on a house which is fine but also not something I feel prepared to do next week.

I have life insurance on myself and on him and disability and if he lost his job he have savings, he would hopefully get a new one, and we would pivot. So it isn’t like we have no plans for that type of stuff.[/quote]

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