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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The solution is to stop being so rigid about things. For example, "not washing or stacking greasy dishes properly." What does this even mean? Do you have some mentality where you supervise to be sure he does things "properly."

You have a man who's tired of being henpecked. Maybe examine yourself. You sound exhausting. [/quote]

NP. It means he mindlessly washed or rinsed the pan and when someone goes to put it away they feel grease all over one or more side. 
Or he put the non greasy plates into the greasy pan, haphazardly washed them, and everything needs to be rewashed before the grease spreads again to more clean dishes. [/quote]

Her entire list is a litany of complaints about HOW he does things. I promise you to the degree he's doing things "deliberately" it's because he's fed up with feeling criticized. It's a common dynamic. Especially if OP is Type A.

There's an old expression: You can ask someone to do something or tell them HOW to do it. Do both and you're asking for trouble. [/quote]

Dude, he does things like $hit.  I’d be worried it’s only a matter of time before he loses his job.

Glad the house didn’t spark and explode with the nat gas on all night in the kitchen. [/quote]

That was insane. He isn’t henpecked. Even if he has horrible adhd he can learn to function as part of the family    Safety issues wouldn’t be tolerated. [/quote]

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