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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The solution is to stop being so rigid about things. For example, "not washing or stacking greasy dishes properly." What does this even mean? Do you have some mentality where you supervise to be sure he does things "properly."

You have a man who's tired of being henpecked. Maybe examine yourself. You sound exhausting. [/quote]

NP. It means he mindlessly washed or rinsed the pan and when someone goes to put it away they feel grease all over one or more side. 
Or he put the non greasy plates into the greasy pan, haphazardly washed them, and everything needs to be rewashed before the grease spreads again to more clean dishes. [/quote]

My dh did idiotic stuff like this and it was infuriating. He isn’t stupid and we agreed to split chores. When he would wash dishes he would never wash the bottom of them and it would be disgusting to see old spaghetti sauce smeared all over everything. One kid had food allergies and sent a thermos of hot food most days to school for kid. I realized he wasn’t washing the lid and I noticed the inner lids of the thermoses were covered with furry mold. I lost it at him. Our kid had health issues and seeing that kid was getting a dose of mold every lunch set me off. I had it out with him and after that any time he did something like that again I’d interrupt whatever he was doing and make him fix it. He learned quickly. I make him remedy the problem. If he talked to me like ops dh did, I’d give it to him full bore. We’d be in counseling and if he didn’t change I’d consider divorce. [/quote]

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