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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The logic here is wild. You divorce a man because he refuses to carry his share of the load and somehow after the divorce you’re expected to keep project-managing his life so the kids’ schedules don’t fall apart? Absolutely not.

That’s what divorce orders are for. Spell. Everything. Out. Pickup times, drop-offs, school forms, medical appointments, activity registration, communication methods, every single task that used to live in the “invisible labor” bucket. If it matters, stipulate it.

And if he doesn’t hold up his end? You don’t sigh and quietly pick up the slack so no one notices. You document it and drag his ass back to court. Judges exist for a reason.

Coparenting does not mean continuing to be your ex-husband’s unpaid executive assistant. His parenting time is his responsibility. His logistics are his problem. His failures are not yours to cushion.

Not your circus. Not your monkeys.[/quote]

Getting contempt orders is expensive, and if it's over relatively minor issues, it will annoy the court.  You write like you have little experience with family courts.  It's one thing to have a solid divorce, but another to have it enforced. Good luck. [/quote]

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