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[quote=Anonymous]What is the resolution? You cannot turn the clock back and have a do-over. So, call your friend and apologize profusely. Tell her that your MIL is showing some cognitive decline issues. Then thank her for the care package, and then call her to meet you and your baby at your home. Then, tell your DH and MIL that it was not at all cool and that from next time they cannot speak for you, your baby and your family without your consent. More than that...you cannot achieve anything. Your MIL has cognitive decline and your DH does not need to be in the middle of this more than necessary. Stamp out the drama. You are here to enjoy your baby and create a conducive environment for her - including mom's BFF aunty and grandma. So, do an appropriate response. Cannot get ballistic. Smart of you to recognize that you are not in the right mindspace after childbirth. So kudos to that awareness.[/quote]
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