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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if the betrayed partner is in denial? My ex husband claimed he liked sex, claimed the extra 60 pounds he gained shouldn’t turn me off, etc, etc. I didn’t realize how badly he was gaslighting me until I had an affair.[/quote] His weight issues and your lack of character are independent of each other. You stopped loving him when you decided that the weight gain was a reason to dislike and disrespect him. In your head you were the perfect wife and treated your AP exactly as you treated your husband. The pretzel twisting cheaters go through to not see who they are is astonishing.[/quote] I'm a cheater, I don't deny that. Not sure whether divorce or cheating would have been better overall. If you think it's 100% better to divorce or live in a sexless marriage, you have black and white thinking and a low sex drive.[/quote]
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