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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many posters here seem to have zero experience with alcoholics. So many excuses for the adult sister's behavior. SMH. Would you give a drug addict $4.5 million? A gambling addict? OP I would contact at wills and trust attorney to see what your options may be. I have similar dynamics in my family between my mother and my two siblings, except my mother has already told me that she won't be leaving me much of anything and most of her estate to my siblings, and then she asked me to basically take care of them for life. I said no.[/quote] I agree with this. It's worth one meeting with a wills and estates attorney. Perhaps the sister has childhood trauma, but regardless of the reason for her alcoholism and inability to work, unfettered access to 4.5M isn't going to help her, it will enable her. Your mom hasn't done anyone here any favors.[/quote]
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