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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everything makes sense but why would you change emergency contacts etc you aren't divorced[/quote]

Agree. I would change them back ASAP. otherwise it is going to look like parental alienation. Just add a 3rd contact if you are worried. It’s not your job to make sure he updates his contact info with the basketball team. Talk about the divorce all you want but be very very careful about doing anything that could be construed as blocking access to the kids or smearing his reputation.[/quote]

I thought she said his contact info changed. If his contact info changed it needs to be updated [/quote]

Not OP’s job. That is between the school and STBxDH. She should absolutely not interfere in the relationship between school and dad. The school will call OP eventually if there is an issue. [/quote]

This. OP, fix that with the school. If you’re concerned he won’t be reachable if they call him after failing to get ahold of you, add a third trusted emergency contact.

You are very entitled to tell people you and your STBX are getting a divorce. Think about not sharing gory details with anyone who might have a future ongoing relationship with him apart from you. For example, don’t tell a coach that he left you for another woman, or don’t tell a teacher that he’s having an affair. Save those details for your personal inner circle. [/quote]

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