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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They tell themselves they are the victims. Own zero for the relationship not working.

If I had known myself better I would have known my marriage would never work. I wasn’t ready to acknowledge that unlike to my friends sex is a huge part of a marriage. If you can take or leave the marital bedroom you’ll never make it.[/quote]

Wild that you assume cheaters are in sexually dead marriages. That’s often not the case.  My now exDH was sleeping with me 3+ times a week while he was cheating with coworkers, prostitutes and other people he met.  I basically never said no to sex with him prior to discovering his infidelities.

And the sex couldn’t have been bad because he begged me not to end our marriage and continued to make passes at me for a couple of years.

OFC, after I discovered he cheated, I had zero sexual interest in him. I had sex with him a few times afterwards, but it felt really gross and like rape to me. It is truly ironic that part of the reason I ended our marriage, is that I believe sex is a really important part of an adult intimate lifetime partnership, and I was so grossed out by his cheating and felt so unsafe that I really couldn’t foresee ever having pleasurable sex with him in the future. So the irony is, it was actually his cheating behavior that created the dead bedroom.[/quote]

Same[/quote]

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