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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this wedding is about the couple, not you. They want to have an enjoyable, memorable dinner that is about their marriage. If you come with a toddler and 3 month old, the kids will act up, everyone will fuss over the baby - it will be all about your kids. And your brother knows it. Fine to skip the destination wedding. Go to the dinner but leave your husband at home with the kids. Stay for an hour and then go back home if you need to.[/quote]' Some people are so interesting. I cannot imagine anyone I know feeling jealous of and not wanting their niece/nephew at a huge family event because people will say they're cute. Especially since it sounds like the main event is all adult. And of course it's destination. It all makes sense. I know someone who had a destination wedding and said no +1s unless married. Lolol. Send your regards and don't worry about it again. [/quote] Agree, like what if you had a stunningly beautiful adult female relative, or a relative with some degree of success or celebrity who might take attention from the couple... you can invite who you want but these would be considered absolutely ridiculous reasons.[/quote] It’s not an apples to apples comparison. The stunningly beautiful adult likely won’t cry or spit up or otherwise make noise and can sit through a dinner or wedding without drawing attention. [/quote]
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