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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Obviously this person takes up a ton of real estate in your mind. I personally wouldn’t like to live that way and would allow your friend to make amends. Cutting people off because you feel disrespected?? Eh! Hear what she has to say. Give her a chance. Life is short and I wouldn’t want to be planning my life around another person like you are currently.[/quote]
This. You are avoiding events that you want to attend. Have the conversation so you can just be normal acquaintances. You don’t have to go back to being besties. You don’t have to agree with her. Move on! [/quote]

But the friend doesn't want to have a conversation. They want OP to "get over it" and pretend it didn't happen. OP can't do that. I'm sure some people can. But I'm like OP -- if someone I'm friends with hurts me and doesn't give a damn, I cannot just pretend. I want that person out of my life, even if it means I don't hang out with the same group anymore. I personally need to have people around me who are more respectful of my feelings than that. Everyone is different.[/quote]

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